Gift Ideas for People with Chronic Illness and Disabilities


Gift Ideas for chronic illness

If you are shopping for a loved one with a chronic illness, long-term illness, or disability, you may feel unsure of their needs, wants and special daily circumstances. Most of these gifts are either for comfort or meant to inspire, yet are still appropriate for someone who is mostly confined to their home or uses a walking aid, if applicable. Here are several gift ideas along with advice to help you shop (from someone who has personal experience with chronic illness, and great friends and family.) *Starred shops are run by disabled sellers who work extra-hard to support themselves.



Internet Subscriptions allow your chronic friend to watch movies and television any time instantly from anywhere. Especially on those bad days when doing nothing but resting is the best and only option, distraction therapy like settling in to great movies and television is a wonderful gift they will certainly thank you for. Netflix, Amazon Prime, or Hulu Plus are the most popular video streaming subscriptions and all cost about $100 per year. The Amazon Prime subscription also allows someone with a Kindle device access to a wide variety of ebooks, audio books, and music, alongside streaming video.



To relax those sore muscles, give your loved one the gift of luxury bath salts. There is a variety to choose from online and in stores from very inexpensive to extremely high end. This Etsy shop, JamilhaAromatherapy mixes small batches of unique scented therapeutic bath salts like this one for $20.95. Research shows that Epsom salt baths detoxify the body, help re-hydrate muscles, help relieve sore muscles, aches, cramps, and spasms. Salt baths can also be helpful for headaches and migraine pain as long as the product isn’t overly scented. [Keep in mind that not everyone with a disability is able to soak in a bathtub.]


This faux fur heating pad by Sunbeam sits around the neck and shoulders delivering 4 settings of pain-soothing heat. It is subtly weighted so you can move around or sleep easily without the heating pad slipping off. I personally have both the gray fox and the brown and black leopard print and adore them- especially during the colder months. There aren’t many fashion- friendly items made strictly for easing pain and this item checks both boxes. The soft fur is very comforting, and people will only comment on the beautiful soft fur, not an obvious heating pad. Even though it is made to fit securely around the neck and shoulders, I use mine wherever I need heat. Currently, on Amazon; both prints are $39.98. Find other attractive heating pads and heating blankets here on (Amazon Smile donates a portion of your purchase to a charity of your choosing: RSDSA for instance).

If you have a loved one who appreciates laughing in the face of his or her ailment, this note card stationary set will certainly be the best medicine this holiday! Artist, Eliza Stein depicts medication growing from plants in the style of vintage botanical illustrations. Featured here is a set of blank stationary for $16. Whether your loved one enjoys mailing notes to his/her friends or would prefer hanging these up on their wall to admire, these note cards will suit their quirky sensibility. Personally, I enjoy sending snail mail to friends and I’m always on the lookout for unique stationary. I’m just in love with this tongue and cheek medication art, aren’t you?



Doctor Who Bear Crochet Pattern: *Shimeree Creations

Art Lessons: The year after I was diagnosed with chronic pain in my leg, my hands began cramping so badly I had trouble typing at work and using a pen to write or draw. For Christmas, my mother gifted me knitting lessons. It was a fun private lesson with my mom, my sister and I, and at 23, I knew how to knit! Even better, it helped my hand cramping and dexterity issues as I continued working at it over time, and the craft gave me another distraction from my pain. Over the years, I’ve learned I am far from alone in my chronic crafting, as people with long term illness tend to utilize the arts as a top-tier coping mechanism. This holiday, consider giving your loved one lessons for jewelry-making, scrap booking, quilting, music lessons, or photography classes. Encouraging them to get in touch with their inner artist could change their lives. If they are homebound, instead consider an art set for them to try at their own pace. (If you are a disabled artist or crafter, visit our Facebook art share group: Chronically Inspired.)


Brella Bag: Innova Golf $28.87

Walking Aid Accessories: If the individual you are buying for uses a wheelchair, electric scooter, crutches, cane or walker on a regular basis, keep these things in mind as you shop. Unless you find something fantastic that you think will improve their walking aid experience greatly (like this sweet hands-free umbrella shown above), try not to focus only on buying items revolved around their walking aid. While a funny personalized license plate for their scooter would be a cute and thoughtful addition to any gift (ie. “Hotwheels”), some might feel their disability has overshadowed who they are as a person. That said, there are so many interesting accessories for the disabled shopper today. Stocking stuffers are a perfect place to add handy ergonomic gadgets to help in the kitchen, car, toolshed or at work, like these linked in this article. As long as you include those personal touches, they will know you still see them as they always have been.



Ebay: Zminglel $25.99

Loungewear: I know what you’re thinking, “I’m so lucky to live in a time in which adult unicorn onesies exist.” Almost every animal, mythical creature or superhero is available on Ebay as adult one-piece pajamas. These are super cute and remind me of the classical literary quote, “Life is getting too complicated, time to be a unicorn.” Since I wear pajamas all the time, I usually like clothing items that are very comfortable and can also pass for casual wear. Instead of a robe, I like to wear a long comfy sweater, for instance. Whatever cozy item you find, make sure your friend can wash it easily in the washing machine. For more loungewear ideas and shops, check out my article from last year, Pajama Chic.




DJ Cat Scratching Pad: UncommonGoods $35.00

Pet Gifts: You might think a pet gift doesn’t count, but our pets are our partners in crime and help take care of us when we don’t feel well (which is all the time). Give your loved one a gift for their pet and watch their eyes twinkle brighter than the Christmas tree! Some suggestions are: a fancy print or sports print dog collar with name, address and phone number embossed like these quiet collars at Pup Panache, this doggie backpack/carrying satchel called The Kurgo Max Pack would be an excellent gift for any helper-dog on the go, or commission a portrait of your friend and his furry bestie by contacting professional portrait artist *Alfredo Dods Macapas.


Monthly Subscriptions and Gift Certificates: Most people with chronic illness have regular “down periods” in which we can struggle to do simple tasks, and even our closest friends won’t know about it. Giving the gift of resources shows you care how much your friend’s life has been affected. Consider a subscription to a house cleaning agency, lawn care service, gift cards to a restaurant that delivers, baby sitting agency, dog walking service, or a gift certificate to a hair salon to use on a day your loved one needs extra help caring for her hair. Some salons will even send a hair dresser out to a person’s home if it is nearby. Pharmacies, grocery stores, and online stores like Amazon are common shopping spots for people with special health needs (or anyone actually). If you’d like to know more about the free things you can do throughout the year, this wonderful article gives insight into how friends can make a big difference during a health challenge.


Awareness Items come in everything from funny coffee mugs to inspiring apparel. Awareness gifts can share hope, sport a ribbon, or include information about your loved one’s condition. Every girl loves receiving jewelry, and if she can feel empowered at the same time, big win! Find unique awareness earrings and necklaces from blogger FindingoutFibro’s new shop, *The Hopeful Spoon for $10 and under (as featured above) with listings of colors and conditions for your shopping convenience. Use special coupon code 10SPOONIE for 10% off any purchase throughout December! To help your friend with her own personal awareness, check out this beautiful journal download that helps anyone with a health challenge keep track of doctor visits, financials, prescriptions, symptoms, etc. from *Marie Pugh Designs. To shop more stores and items by disabled entrepreneurs, read this article by my friend at


While shopping for your loved one, steer clear of:

-I would stay away from giving an herbal supplement or vitamin on a gift-giving occasion (unless it’s a stocking stuffer and you aren’t spending much money on it). Likely, your friend already has a daily medication and supplements program approved by his/her doctor.

-Books aimed at healing or promising wellness are a no-no, especially if you are not also chronically ill or disabled yourself.

-When buying shoes or slippers as gifts, be aware that many people with chronic health conditions have “picky” feet. If you do find shoes you believe they will love, do them a favor, pay cash and keep the receipt in case they indeed need to return them.

-Personalize. Just like mom doesn’t always want the spatula and the vacuum she needs as Christmas gifts,  we also look forward to receiving both useful and fun items- like everyone.


Be assured, if you are shopping to make your loved one’s life easier, more comfortable, or more enjoyable, they will recognize your compassion above all. We should all be so lucky as to have a friend as considerate and caring as you. Happy Holidays!

For funny, whacky, and inspiring gift ideas, visit my Pinterest boards, Spoonie Gifts and PJ Chic.


Check out my other 2 gift guides for Chronic Pain as well as for Dysautonomia, POTS and CFS. I got a little “wrapped up” with Spoonie gift ideas this year! What are your favorite “chronic” gifts that you’ve either received or given?


About abodyofhope

I do not know why it is that we must wade through tragic circumstances to find truth. We nearly drown! But under the water, there are pearls. I hope in writing this blog, more will come to the surface. Over the past 11 years living with chronic pain, patient advocacy has affected my life through so many remarkable young people, women and men: SURVIVORS. These individuals are HOPE personified. I wish to honor them in the same spirit they have encouraged me to press on. Four years ago, I became bed-bound from a variety of chronic illnesses after a procedure meant to help the pain condition I had been managing for several years- went bust #BIGTIME. In the last 4 years, my entire life has changed. I have changed, but I am still striving to live my best life possible. Along with sharing inspiring pieces, medical/holistic research, and awareness articles, this blog is also an attempt to put my own pieces back together. Welcome to A Body of Hope, and thank you for visiting. [Complex Regional Pain Syndrome/ RSD, Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS), Dysautonomia, Chronic Intractable Migraine, Cluster headache, Trigeminal Neuralgia, Occipital Neuralgia, Hypersensitivity to Sound & Light, Fibromyalgia, Cerebrospinal Fluid Imbalance......blah, blah, blah] >>> P.S. My headgear is protective for pain. I just rock it hard.

Posted on December 7, 2015, in Holidays, Uncategorized and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 17 Comments.

  1. Great list! Lots of good ideas for sure!

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  2. Reblogged this on Finding Out Fibro and commented:
    This is a truly comprehensive list of gifts that spoonies will love to receive for the holidays! My beautiful friend, ABodyofHope put together a really amazing Spoonie Gift Guide, I’m so impressed!

    I’m not just saying that because she featured my Etsy shop, The Hopeful Spoon ( in her clever list, either!

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  3. Mary thank you so very much for featuring The Hopeful Spoon on your beautiful blog!

    Look how many facebook shares this has!!! Amazing! And for good reason, too, this is a really well-thought out list.

    Sending you love and hugs and all the spoons in the drawer, sweetheart!

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    • Thank you so much for all of your support and for allowing me to share your shop. I know I got a little wrapped up 😉 this year with the gift lists but I’m glad you liked it and I hope some non-spoonie shoppers gained a bit of insight also. The not so serious posts are always fun.
      I so appreciate you checking in when you have so much going on. I hope your shop is doing spectacularly its opening holiday!
      Bunches of love and squeezes back to you xoxo

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  4. What an awesome list!! Thank you for compiling it and sharing it with us! I’m also a big fan of Jessi’s jewelry; I’m so glad you featured her! 🙂


    • Thank you, Sarah! I’m so thankful Jessi has your support, and I know she’ll gain so many fans through her art and work in the community.
      Thank you for reading. So glad you enjoyed it ☺ Happy new year!


  5. Mary, I’d love to reblog this… but it’s not allowing me to? Also I make support-awareness jewelry and the $$ goes to the cause such as Rsdsa or RSDhope or Chemo angels etc… My Fbk page is “Support in Jewelry”, website is: And SupportINJewelry.tumblr .com. Just FYI and very reasonable and ppl can use variety of payments via Pay Pal!


  6. Hello my friend…I have some better photos for you than the blue /Easter egg, earrings to share….I have my real Dysautonomia/POTS bracelets, earrings if you wish? I also have a few new places and an old place where you can find my items….at and …Im not sure how to send you the photos…so I’ll post the Dysautonomia stuff on both of the above places in the top spot so you can see them and get them…thank you so much…and if I can help you please let me know?


    • Hi Suzanne, Thank you! I will retrieve them and change out the photo if you’d like and include your links as well. I replied to your link from before with my email address, but forgive me if you did email me there with your information and I missed it! 😦 Thank you so much for thinking of the community and doing such awesome things for awareness,
      Happy New Year,

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  7. This is fantastic. I especially love the book no-no. I’ve received many “miracle cure” books, prayer cards & other items. I still have RSD/lupus. 😑

    Thank you for this. Hope you’re well, my friend. ❤️

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    • Hello friend! Thank you so much for visiting!

      Yes, those can be such awkward yet well-intending gifts. When I was newly diagnosed, books like the ones you speak of made me furious! (Can you say awkward? Lol)
      Now I see them as attempts at helping, but maybe our friends & family might see there are many ways to help or support (other than reminding us of cures and healing).

      Thanks bunches for stopping in! I hope today is being good to you ♡ xo

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